June 6-9, 2025 | Mendocino Woodlands, CA
UPDATES: Super Early Bird Extended to March 7
Performers & Teachers announced
Come Be Lovers in Community!
Ritual ✨ Revelry ✨ Dance ✨ Music ✨ Play ✨ Eros ✨ Fire ✨ Forest
Join us, friends and lovers, for the eco-sexy summer camp experience of your dreams!
FireLight 🔥 summons the warmth in our hearts, the fire of our souls, and a spark of eros to come forth so that we may shine our light even brighter in the world and be an agent of love, in all its forms.
✨Be part of an intimate immersive festival experience filled with whimsy, magic, ceremony, revelry, nourishment, nature, dance, workshops, intimate connections, and erotic exploration.
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Set in a secluded grove of redwoods near the Mendocino coast, this National Historic Landmark site boasts an impressive dance hall, restored 100-year-old cabins, ample camping/RV spots, and a large fire circle amphitheater. Prepare to unplug and be deeply held by the abundance of nature.
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This historic camp also has miles of hiking/biking trails, a swimming hole nearby, and a great-grandmother tree. Mindful and eco-erotic journeys in the forest will be offered as a way to reconnect with our eros/life force energy through nature.
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BE together in a NEW way with communitywhere every part of you is welcomed and celebrated. Come as you are—and leave feeling nourished, supported, and enlivened with new experiences and connections.
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This is a unique novel experience presented to you by a group of committed producers and coordinators with decades of combined experience.
Community Values
Creating community requires values that promote the wellbeing of each member of the community and the relationships between them. These values, expressed as agreements, weave themselves into the fabric of community. When you RSVP you will be asked to commit to these agreements as a way to co-create the this fabric and the playground we will all be enjoying together in the forest.
Love ✨ A natural expression of humans beings in community
Care ✨ A desire to bring good things to people so they feel supported
Consideration ✨ Acting to show that someone else’s experience (feelings, pace, needs, desires, and boundaries) matters as much as ours
Curiosity ✨ Being willing to find out about another person’s experience
Attention ✨ Taking/spending the time to get to know another person’s experience
Attunement ✨ Aligning our own actions & experience with another person’s
Connection ✨ Basking in the beauty of dancing with another person’s experience
Trust ✨ Believing that moment to moment we will continue to find ways to stay connected in a way that works best for both of us
Consent ✨ From a place of connection & trust, saying YES to the next moment with another person and staying with this mutual YES until we are complete
Seva & Volunteering
In the spirit of co-creation and group synergy, we are asking everyone to sign up for a 2-hour volunteer shift before, during, or after the event.
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More volunteer shifts may be done for an additional discount, and it's possible to do a full work trade for your ticket (see Get Involved below).
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If you'd like to come a day early and/or leave a day later and help us with build or strike you are also welcome to do so.
Gallery
Photos by
Paget Norton Photography
FireLight 🔥 2024 Recap Video
RSVP & Ticket Information
(see below to RSVP to Purchase a Ticket)
About Tickets to FireLight 🔥 2025
All tickets include 3 nights' accommodation, delicious meals and snacks, workshops, rituals, music, morning movement\dances, evening temples, fire ceremonies, and immersive art experiences. Option to come a day early and stay a day late if you help with set up or clean up (see more below about volunteer shift and work\trade) or if you just want to upgrade to a more relaxed arrival and departure.
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The base ticket price includes either camping or a single bed in a shared cabin with 4 beds each. You can upgrade and buy out a cabin as a single or couple, or request roommates to share the cabin with you (Note: cabin upgrades are on a first-come, first-served basis and will be confirmed closer to the date of the gathering, with an easy refund if we run out of available cabins)
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A limited number of RVs passes will also be allowed (no hookups) for an additional cost.
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Ticket Details
a bed in a rustic cabin or camping
2 delicious meals/day (brunch + dinner) + ample snacks
workshops / classes / song circles
performances / music
temples / conscious play events
community experience
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Ticket Pricing
$450 presale tier ~ until 1/7/25 (limited spots!)
$500 super early lover tier ~ until 3/1/25 (limited spots!)
$550 early lover tier ~ until 4/1/25 (limited spots!) - EXTENDED TO APRIL 5!
$600 mighty lover tier ~ until 5/1/25
$650 deep lover tier ~ after 5/1/25
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Upgrades
$44 for car parking/camping
$222 for RV parking/camping
$333 for private cabin upgrade
$77 for early arrival on 6/12
$77 for later departure on 6/17
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Timing
arrival 12noon-3pm on 6/6 (early arrival 6/5)
departure after 2pm on 6/9 (late departure 6/10)
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Refund Policy
Refunds will be allowed up to one month before the event with a $100 processing fee, then up to one week before the event with a $150 processing fee. After that there are no refunds. Thank you for working with us on this! You can also transfer your ticket to another person with an approved RSVP at any time by messaging us.
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Limited Partial Scholarships Available
We understand financial hardship can be temporary/circumstantial and/or also be due to systemic factors & welcome you to apply due to either or both. We understand reaching out can be vulnerable as well. If you would like to ask for a partial scholarship to join us via email to firelight@exquisite.love.
To Get a Ticket, You Must First RSVP...
Because this is an intimate gathering capped at 200 lovers and one that has opportunities for erotic connections to be welcomed at specific times and in specific places, we have an RSVP form to create an additional layer of safety for our group. Please fill out the form and then we’ll share a private ticket link with you once approved.
Testimonials
"I’ve been absolutely pushed beyond what I thought was possible and I am so appreciative for every single one of you. The amount of real love, connection and care I experienced in that woodsy caldron has been a highlight of my year and I feel like I was able to truly imprint important rewiring in my system. I had the opportunity to share vulnerably and be met in ways I only ever dreamed and catapulted me into some pretty incredible opportunities since. Thank you for the juiciness on all levels, ya’ll are pretty fucking incredible❤️ " ~Katelyn
"Thank you to all of the wonderful souls that made this weekend possible. FireLight 🔥 was a powerful exploration of love for myself, in connection with others, and with the grounding of the Earth. Will always treasure being witnessed and the feeling of embodiment that came into my life this weekend. With deep love and gratitude" ~Gemini
"Thank you for crafting this enchanting event! It was a profoundly intimate journey of self-discovery and expression. I delved deeper into my innermost desires, unveiling layers of my soul. Truly, love is all we need. 🩷" ~Michael L
"Hello lovely lovers-in-community! What juicy fun it was to enjoy the forest of FireLight 🔥 with you! 🐉🐲🪷😘🐦🔥🔥" ~Denise
"Thank you so much for the wonderful weekend of FireLight 🔥. If you ever want multiple paragraphs of gushingly positive review, let me know!" ~Duncan S
"I’m traveling back to Florida with a heart so full from all of your energy and love. I’m so glad I took the risk to join this event. I thank you so much because I really need it… you are all such gifts to this world. I hope I get to see you and join this beautiful community again." ~East Coast Leslie Grace
"FireLight 🔥 family! LeRome and I are in LA headed to the airport and floating in so much bliss…This weekend was EPIC. It was such a gift and pleasure to connect with each of you and co-create such a magical experience together. Thank you Philippe, Shams, Elle, B, Maha, and the entire FireLight 🔥 team for curating such a safe container to explore, express and expand. 🚀Thank you to everyone in this community for showing up so fully in your hearts!! ❤️🔥We see you,We honor you,We love you" ~Luna & LeRome, Infinite Heart
"Headed back to NYC and I am truly engulfed with gratitude at the reception of everyone in this group welcoming me into your loving community. I look forward to bringing word back to my community in New York of the wonder of FireLight 🔥 and fully expect to bring a delegation next year and hopefully build deeper into expanding offerings between both coasts." ~Emanuel
"Fantastic festie!! Thanks huge to all that made this happen. It takes a village to raise a ‘weekend as much fun as this was’!! Love to all " ~Will and Melissa ❤️
"MAGICAL BEAUTIFUL TRIBE! Thank you all for opening your hearts this weekend & cocreating such a sexy, sacred, soulful container to play and dance and connect. Wow. Leaving, I was surprised by the range of emotions that arose that revealed to me just how precious these opportunities to gather truly are 🫶" ~Soūl
"Wow, my heart is so full this evening reflecting back on all the delicious and connected moments with everyone. Huge thank you to everyone who produced the event, who volunteered, who shared their art or their passion, and of course to all the human beings who showed up and participated to make this a massive success. Love you all and feeling very grateful to have had the opportunity to bask in your collective glows. 😻✨🤌" ~JP
"Bursting with a sense of appreciation and gratitude. my first play event, really. i feel expanded thanks to so many interactions. here are just a few. Philippe for sharing silent tears at sunrise which helped my nervous system be present to and absorb what an emotional stretch this was for me • Mariasole for tender connection, slowing down. your questions help me connect to a deeper animal part of me. • Frank for thoughtful reflection and curiosity. you inspire me to think big • glory---your intuitive expression through art has rekindled a practice for me • ember let's just sit and hold fins • Enki for being playful and present. your conscious embodiment inspires me to do the same • Shauna for holding a loving space and allowing my inner wolf to emerge • Jesse for helping me find my power • Gary Underpants for a cosmic connection. see you at the portal, brother • BE for creating a sense of safety that allows me to access my unbridled self • Chuck my swamp brother! thanks for supporting my verbal processing and being a terrific adventure partner • Eric for a jolt unleashed • Carsten for being a beacon of mischievous joy. helps me access a similar quality • Lex for inspiring me to ask who am i, really • Dakaraiel for the curiosity, love, and care. you are my conscious intimacy brother • P:hoenix, you calm me on the dance floor • Shams for showing me what is possible • David for showing me the way to self love. i felt it! •• successful integration everyone. hope to see you all soon in some way ❤️ ❤️" ~Gary
"I’m leaving FireLight 🔥 feeling so full, so grateful, so blessed, and so magical. This community is just incredible and I’m so happy I finally feel a sense of belonging 🖤" ~Ember
"So nice to connect with you all and let my sexy silly energy run free all weekend." ~ Eric Severson
"Last weekend was a delightful surprise. After a heavy few weeks, CJ reached out and asked if I wanted to join him for FireLight 🔥, an inaugural festival in the Mendocino Forest. A last minute festival seemed like a big lift, but my spirit felt really excited about this possibility. With CJ' love and support, I leaned in - and am so glad I did! New festivals can be a wildcard, but I was so impressed by this creation spearheaded by Philippe and Shams. The group that gathered felt safe and intentional. The container was strongly held through ritual and clear agreements. The venue was an adorable woodland full of playful magic and sweet potential. I didn't feel like the shiniest version of myself, but I received an abundance of admiration, love, and connection. My weekend was full of synchronistic moments, big exhales, and deep conversation. I strengthened budding relationships, and met incredible new people I'm excited to be in touch with. Thank you Philippe for your loving presence, sage wisdom, and skilled facilitation. Thank you Shams for your warm smile, bright eyes, and thoughtful leadership. Thank you CJ for your encouragement, tender care, and for being such a great festival buddy. Thank you Enki for your delicious food and thoughtfulness with me and my needs. Thank you to the rest of the FireLight 🔥 team for creating such an incredible container! Excited to see what this crew does next!" ~Abby
"THANK YOU for the wonder-full and beauty-full gathering, and for the opportunity to contribute to it 🙏🏼" ~Taber
"Ohhh dear ones!! I just looked through all the photos and am fondly reflecting on what an absolutely delicious, healing, connective and celebratory time we all shared together! Absolute YUM! 🔥❤️🔥 I’m just getting home from 5 days of camping with my family in the Eastern Sierras straight after FireLight 🔥, so finally able to catch up on all these messages and relive the glow.. you humans are so magnificent. Thank you for all the ways you contributed, your labor, your gifts, your magic.. ✨ Love you all" ~West-Coast Leslie Grace
Greetings, kindred lovers ❤️🔥 As the embers of the FireLight 🔥 and the echoes of the 4th of July celebration gently settle, I find myself filled with deep gratitude for these connections and the facilitators who poured their energy into making this event extraordinary. I witnessed the exhaustion etched upon your faces and wish to offer my humble services for next year's gathering to help recreate this sacred space of authentic connection. I am profoundly thankful for the opportunity to reconnect with old friends and forge bonds with new ones. Let us continue to nurture these connections." ~Jesper ✨
"I’m still basking in the afterglow of FireLight 🔥. So many sweet, sexy, relaxing moments, lovely connections and getting to share a wide variety of forms of love. For me, also having the benefit of already having many dear friends among you, FireLight 🔥 felt like a sexy summer camp where everything is welcome, yet without the pressure of pushing for transformation or trying to get anywhere." ~Michael McDonald
"In the end we are all
but light
that cascades
from our inner blades
of forbidden fire
I'm still reminiscing the juicy times in the magical Redwoods, a place where I've been going for the past 12 years and lived for one. While I had a quiet start in the fest, I was grateful for the incremental surprises, subtle insights of witnessing my desires, fears, judgements, and joy, as I surrender to feel our collective connectedness, when we let go of the past and build something new. This was my 6th temple night, coming in with uncertainty and curiosity, and I felt more welcome in this group than previous temples—thanks to the care and leadership of Shams, Philippe, and the team that made this happen (shout out to Infinity for leading the volunteers, Asherah for holding space as high priestess). I made love in the redwoods, fostered incredible new connections, nurtured new brotherhood, and I can't wait to explore more with you'all at the intersection of spirit, sex, magic, and art." ~Priyatam
"I was just thinking about my experience at FireLight 🔥 and one of the things that stood out was the entertainment, the way you and your team orchestrated DJs and entertainment was very high-quality. I remember Tantra festivals where they didn’t even had a real DJ. Like the Tantra festival of Southern California, for example. Well done because that makes all the difference ☀️☀️☀️" ~Stephan
KR3TURE!
Blessing us with his incredible music!
JaMeeSHKA!
Honey of the Heart!
BrightSide Blue!
Core & Nourishment Teams
Making magic happen through loving collaboration!
Performers & Artists
Creating Magic in Time & Space!
Teachers
Bringing in Their Wisdom and Body of Work!
The Land & Venue
This is where we will create our Enchanted Village of Lovers!
The Forest, our Playground
The Hearth, our Dance Hall
The Meadow, for the Tea Lounge
Inside of a Cabin
The FireLight our Amphitheater
The Nourishment, our kitchen
A Cabin
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the policy for late arrivals and early departures?
Are pets allowed?
Can I bring my child?
Where is the event located and how far is it from San Francisco?
What are the accommodations like?
What are the bathrooms like?
What are essential items on the packing list?
What does it mean that the event will involve Eros and Erotic Exploration?
What if I have concerns about someone who might be attending?
What is your refund policy?
What will the weather be like?
Do you have discounts or scholarships available?
How's cellphone/internet reception at the venue?
How do I add a car pass, RV pass, or Private Cabin to my ticket?
Get Involved
Join the team to help make the magic happen!
Work Trades
Short on cash? Love to help? Join us on a work trade!
Teach a Workshop!
Join us to share your body of work with the participants!
The CARE Team
The primary focus of CARE Support is to help keep the attendees safe, and healthy by providing a non-judgmental presence for physical, emotional, and mental situations.
Duties could include workshop assistance, space holding, witnessing, first-aid, and mediation.
If accepted, you may fulfill your 2-hour SEVA shift here and/or dedicate more hours towards a work/trade discount.
DJ & Performers
Are you a DJ or Performer who would like to bring your talents to this magical experience? You've come to the right place!
Artists
Art is fundamental to the participants' experience of the festival. If you are an artist and would like to bring your creations to FireLight, please apply below!
Immersive/interactive Spaces & Experiences
This year are opening up to a new category of offerings: immersive/interactive spaces and experiences to delight our participants.
These may be an artistic installation designed to evoke a feeling relevant to FireLight 🔥, a pop-up performance/offering under the trees or indoor, or an immersive themed room or separate structure/tent.
If you have a vision please let us know!
The Healing Sanctuary
Sanctuary Healers are trained professionals who practice holistic or complimentary therapy. Some examples of Holistic Therapies are massage, energy healing, hypnosis, sound healing, breathwork, and more.
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